Between caring for our homes, loving our husbands, fulfilling our work responsibilities, and tending to our spiritual lives—they’re just never seems to be enough hours in the day. It’s so easy to begin to feel like we are being pulled in a hundred directions. We want to excel, or rather, get to everything as soon as we can. But this will drain us and make us weary. The Proverbs 31 woman did what seems like the impossible but she was wise. She knew that true balance began by seeking God first.
In the rush of the day, have you ever found yourself too busy to pray? Too distracted to read Scripture? Too overwhelmed to serve your loved ones with a joyful heart? These struggles are common and real. We are not meant to be consumed by busyness. Instead, God calls us to a life of order, peace, and spiritual obedience. It’s not about molding a life of perfectness but about knowing what to prioritize and whom we are ultimately serving.
Time for Reflection
"But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you."
- Matthew 6:33
That true balance that I speak of, begins with the Lord. When our spiritual life, our relationship with God, is strong then everything falls into place. He provides a mindset and a comfort that withstands the troubles of evil. He gives us wisdom to structure our days, strength to complete our tasks, and peace when it seems like we are far from it. Put Him first and He will do the same for you.
Finding Balance as a Godly Woman
1. Prioritize Prayer and Devotion
Here’s what I suggest you do. Set time each morning, even just 5 minutes at first, to sit with the Lord. Read a verse and pray. Let your quiet time with Him be your anchor before the day’s demands begin. Let these moments be intentional, not rushed.
2. Honor Your Home Duties with Joy
Our homes are the first ministry of our lives as wives and homemakers. As we cook meals, tidy up the home, and serve our families with love—we are worshiping. This is done by inviting Christ into our daily tasks. If you haven’t tried this, prioritize this as well. Give thanks for the food that results in dirty plates. Give thanks for the clothes that keep you warm as you scrub off stains. Simply find the gratitude in what most find “mundane.” Play worship music as you cook, prayer over your home as you sweep, do what you feel invites God into your works and your home.
3. Balance Work with Godly Stewardship
I know that there are a lot of sisters that work outside of the home. Your working a job, running a business, or managing projects. And truly, these are gifts from the Lord but they should never replace our first callings. It’s easier said than done, but when you have the chance to make a choice, listen closely to what God wishes for you to do. Set clear hours for work to prevent burnout. Guard your time with family and God. Prioritize the Sabbath and making rest a priority.
4. Make Room for Rest and Renewal
Remember, a tired and weary wife cannot serve with her best foot forward. Find even mere minutes throughout your day to recharge physically, mentally, and spiritually. Every 20 minutes, stretch for 5 minutes. Read Scripture morning and night. Spend time in hobbies that bring you joy, a few times a week. Ask the Lord to help guide you in finding the balance.
Hearty Honey-Glazed Roast Chicken
Ingredients:
1 whole chicken (about 4 lbs)
3 tbsp honey
2 tbsp olive oil
1 tbsp Dijon mustard
1 tsp dried thyme
1 tsp garlic powder
1 tsp salt
½ tsp black pepper
2 carrots, chopped
1 onion, sliced
2 potatoes, cubed
Instructions:
Preheat oven to 375°F.
In a bowl, mix honey, olive oil, mustard, thyme, garlic powder, salt, and pepper.
Rub the mixture all over the chicken, ensuring even coating.
Place the chopped vegetables at the bottom of a roasting pan and lay the chicken on top.
Roast for about 1 hour 20 minutes, basting occasionally, until golden brown and juices run clear.
Let rest for 10 minutes before carving. Serve warm and enjoy!
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A Time for Prayer
Heavenly Father, You are the God of order, peace, and wisdom. In the midst of our busy days, help us to seek You first. Teach us to balance our work, home, and spiritual life in a way that honors You. Give us strength when we are weary, joy in our daily tasks, and wisdom in how we spend our time. Let our homes be places of peace, love, and holiness. In Jesus' name,
Amen.
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Remember…
Dear sisters, we are called to be faithful stewards of the time, gifts, and responsibilities God has given us. But balance isn't about perfection—it's about wisely aligning our priorities with God's will. As you go through this week, lean on Him. Seek His wisdom, allow His peace to reign in your home, and walk in the grace that He freely gives.
With love and encouragement,
Young Homemakers Club Founder
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Encouraging article, thank you! I have found myself weary after dinner and can’t close up the night without feeling so drained and dare I say… irritable